They force a long-term Subscription on you, Not even offering a free trial to see if it’s for you or not. Ive now tried every dating app and because E-Harmony does not offer month to month or new user free trials they are the worst in this platform. Ive come to the sad conclusion that these dating platform's are in it for profit and self gain, capitalizing on the loneliness, feelings of other individuals. I guess they did not get the memo about the worlds monetary inflation.. The only thing to do is get out more, find public outlets and engage woman and the like, socially, friends or otherwise. Which is fine by me, rather do that then support corporate greed. On other platforms I also encountered a bad case of Superficiality, at least on the Woman's side, you have woman that basically flash you. Showcasing what their about (Their Twins).. As a woman you should be more than that.. Most woman have unrealistic high expectations like “If you cant make me laugh all the time” or they want to date someone that looks like Chris Hemsworth. They leave you with Ultimatum’s.. while realistically you wont ever find a perfect partner. Im sure these poor traits exist on the men’s side as well but from what I've seen most of these woman are not looking for something real and long term and only seek validation. Well thats fine, but you can do that any place, Just not on my dime..

I downloaded eharmony thinking I would give the dating app world a try. After spending an hour answering questions about myself and to hypothetical situations I get to fill out some written responses that other people will see. I didn’t mind the process for setting up my account, it challenged me to be open and honest with myself and the people I might meet. Once I finally to upload a profile picture and get to see my matches the first thing that stood out was that the pictures were blurred out. Initially, I believe there may be a loading issue or something of that nature… nope. Gotta pay in order to see pictures. For the majority of people, I would assume, being able to see the people you’re talking to is very important. Psychologically speaking, in the real world any grounds for sexual attraction are the initial means for engaging in conversation with the opposite sex. And by the seems of it, that’s the only thing you pay for. Not a great first impression, and unfortunately the only impression you will get from consumers like me. Limited time offer to immediately invest in several months of using the app or you get no deal. I’m not even convinced that online dating is something I’m interested in, and the moment I get to explore this avenue I’m being asked for money to access one of the most basic features of the app. It’s a pass from me.

I have a STRONG feeling the 5 star reviews are bots or paid reviewers meant to offset the volume of 1-2star reviews. It’s cheaper and easier than listening to the feedback and changing. First the price, this is ungodly expensive. They claim it is because of the research it took to make their gimmicky test. Let’s be honest this site is almost over 20 years old, the test has long since been paid for. And to add insult it’s not really a ‘monthly’ subscription if you are forced to pay in 4 lump payments. The word you were looking for is ‘quarterly’…. Second, NOBODY is using this. I am just outside DC, one of the most densely populated ‘single yuppie’ areas in the country. There are a Handful of profiles. Not a handful that I liked or matched with, a handful period. And of those most were dead profiles. This is probably due to the prohibitive cost driving everyone to competitor apps, which is where I will be heading. Conclusion, this may have started as a legit dating sight but they have not adjust or innovated at all to keep pace with the competition. Now the bulk of their revenue is people paying their prohibitive cost once then leaving seeing it’s crap and leaving. Save your money, it’s a scam.