At first glance the app looks like it is only letting quality and vetted people into its services with the wait-list, then you realize that anyone can pay to skip the wait-list so the whole concept is another way of making extra money. I moved about 1,500 spots in two months and have 53,500 more to go so it's definitely possible to do it for free in about 5+ years. I understand they need to make money but just have ads and actually let people use the app. Try another dating app first.

It's just okay. It's not toxic, at least. But really annoying that there's a paywall for everything, and it's ridiculously expensive even for little stuff like "promote" or "undo" features. There's also a lag in the loading of photos, so when I open the app to look at new profiles, it will show the same photos for the profiles I viewed the day before despite being a different person.

Pretty disappointed. I like their approach, but I never got any matches. I feel like I spend more time interacting with a UI than actual people, which just makes the whole experience that much more depressing. Update: Took another look, my account was un-member-ized since it went inactive so I couldn't see if things had improved. The only thing I could see was an avalanche of concierge spam messages, the last of which addressed me as "%name%"....👎